This starts with you as the parent.
You cannot be a steward to your child and a guide for their moral compass
unless you are actively practicing and the living the same values. It seems
like a simple enough statement but I am often surprised at the amount of people
who think differently. A rotten tree will bare rotten fruit. I was challenged
once after denying my daughter a friend request from her aunt on Face book.
There were at the time daily postings of her partying, she was an admitted
adulterer, and had random posting of profanity and filth on her Wall. For me it
was not a question of keeping my daughter in a bubble for the rest of her life,
she is a freshman in High school where there is daily exposure such things; it
had more to do with letting her be exposed to this filth. As a father why would
I do that? I told my daughter “no” and I explained to her why and how a decent
person in full view of God should not conduct themselves like that. She has
made her decision and has repeatedly defied God’s law and done her own thing.
We all sin but the difference is in how you sin; if you continue to knowingly
sin and if you ask for forgiveness.
Adeptio Sapientia
Wednesday, July 4, 2012
Tuesday, July 3, 2012
Does it matter how we live?
Does it matter how we
live?
I once heard a Vegan say “living
food living body, dead food dead body”. Now while I may not agree with a
meatless life style I do see wisdom in the statement and how it can be applied
to how we should live our lives. This basic concept is if we think it, watch
it, allow it into too our lives through, our TV, life styles, dress, and our
thoughts that is what we will become.
Take a professional athlete; a
world class full contact Tae Kwon Do student. At that level everything he does
is deliberately focused on his objective, which is to transform his body and
more importantly his mind into a weapon to defeat his opponent. He will
surround himself with what it takes to accomplish this. The way he eats,
thinks, exercises, conducts himself, clothes, shoes, hair style: all this to
prepare his body and soul for battle, and when done right he has transformed
himself into a weapon. Another example is a professional dancer. Her day starts
with stretching, forms…
When you buy a car or truck or
someone you know gets one, have you noticed how quickly you start to notice
that make and model everywhere you go?
Why is it important to be involved
in what your child watches, is exposed too? Further more why is it important to
explain to them why they are not allowed to do, watch or participate in certain
things. So in other words why censorship?
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